tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2054647267167150119.post6497736225873804329..comments2023-07-18T05:43:05.072-05:00Comments on Papa Two Twin Girls: One-on-one time is tough with twinsBrad Jenkinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05204749441573466961noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2054647267167150119.post-41824187275927105572011-12-01T12:25:18.899-06:002011-12-01T12:25:18.899-06:00Ugh, the age-old question of parents with twins. ...Ugh, the age-old question of parents with twins. I struggle with this too and it's gotten even more difficult with a second set of twins in the mix.<br /><br />We usually do things in pairs, meaning if I have errands to run or want to do something special without ALL the kids, I'll usually take the big twins or the little twins but very rarely is it just one on one.<br /><br />Bella and I have a lot more in common being the only females so she and I will sometimes do stuff alone but, again, it's rare because then I fear the boys will feel left out and like I prefer her company over theirs.<br /><br />So obviously I have no easy answers for you...but just wanted to let you know you're not alone in your search for figuring out ways to handle one-on-one time with your twins.Helenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10743718606624231459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2054647267167150119.post-36334164598616292672011-10-06T11:04:55.247-05:002011-10-06T11:04:55.247-05:00I know this post is a few weeks old, but I clicked...I know this post is a few weeks old, but I clicked over from MandyE's blog and started reading through some of your posts...I thought I would throw my two cents in on this one, since you did ask for input! : )<br /><br />One-on-one time is something we still struggle with in our house, but running errands together is one of the best ways we have found to make it happen. It's a little hard to load just one up and take her to the park while the other one gets to do something much less exciting. Also, we only have car seats in one vehicle, so if we go in opposite directions, we have to deal with moving a seat to my husband's truck. <br /><br />What happens much more often is that one or the other of us needs to run to the store, the bank, the post office, etc., so we grab one of our girls to go along with us. The grocery store can be lots of fun to a 2-year-old, and a trip with just one baby is almost a relaxing experience for an adult who is used to wrestling two everywhere you go! : ) Sneak it in where you can, when you can, I say!Deannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11371310465607810535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2054647267167150119.post-15456441815296450462011-09-14T19:14:55.160-05:002011-09-14T19:14:55.160-05:00Derek started taking one girl bird watching (no co...Derek started taking one girl bird watching (no comments :-p) while I took one to play once a month around the age your girls are. It's tougher I think on Mama, because the one left with her is less than impressed. Or maybe I'm just less good at keeping that child's attention alone ;) <br /><br />However, that moment when they realize they're being separated is heart wrenching! My advice: you and mama leave at the same time in different cars. That makes that moment a bit easier.Melissa Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15580490537404322729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2054647267167150119.post-234043772187410002011-09-14T09:00:29.243-05:002011-09-14T09:00:29.243-05:00Brad, I love reading your blog! Even though I have...Brad, I love reading your blog! Even though I have one little person I struggle with spending time with both of my "boys". A good reminder though, thank you! <br /><br />You are one good Papa! Good work on the vaca!Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06118246218649618573noreply@blogger.com